Resources

Self loathing? Uninspired? Welcome to the club. It sucks here, and that’s why I’m gonna help you fight your way out. And make no mistake: it will be a fight. Here are some things that I think will help you…

My Favorite Blog Posts

The R.E.L. Show

My Inspirational Spotify Playlist

Music is where it all began….

The right music can instantly move us and elevate our mood. Here are a few tracks I like to play when my artist heart needs a lift.

Some of my favorite places to get inspired…

Gala Darling — My girl Gala Darling is the creator of #radicalselflove, and her site was one of the best self-love resources I could find out there.

Danielle Laporte — Danielle LaPorte’s wildly freeing views on desire gave me the courage I needed to start paying attention to my own feelings.

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Ariel helped me believe in myself, decide to go after my dreams and helped my songwriting get better. She inspires me daily with positivity.
Dezi Stern
You made me realize that I'm not alone and that confidence is beautiful. Now I'm working on being confident. Thank you so much.
Savannah
You helped push me towards being a musician as well as overall healthier in the way I view myself.
Missy Nyx
Your music has gotten me through some of the worst times of my depression and PTSD.
Ashley Mulhearn
Thank you for being such a real artist.
Chris Gage
Ariel gave me the exact kick in the ass that I needed in order to start taking back control of my life from depression.
Kristi Klein
You inspired me to break out of my own personal barricade, and write and score my own music.
Jonathan Salazar
Sometimes I feel like you read my mind when I listen to your music. It speaks to my soul.
Stephanie Wallace
You have made me realize that life is worth every second and that helping people is the best thing you can do for the world.
Anna
You challenged me to LIVE the life I wanted, instead of moping about what I didn’t think I could achieve, thank you!
Melissa Clifton
Your music is a constant positive force in my life and makes me feel like I can get through anything. Thank you for everything you do!
Matt
Because of you and your lyrics, I finally found the courage to do what I was born to do.
Liza Jean
You’re an inspiration. You proved that recovery from anxiety and depression is possible.
Sandrine Tan
You helped me see the value in myself when I thought my life wasn't worth living. I can't thank you enough.
Calvyn Villyard
You literally inspire me to do my best at and try my hardest with all I do, and that just because I’m a girl doesn’t mean I can’t do it.
Kayla
You & your lyrics helped show me that i have the strength and the drive to get better. That I don't have to stay stuck in my mental illness.
Rye

I've got a message for you: pain has a purpose.

We all have a lifetime worth of pent-up pain, and we each get to decide what to do with it. Will you let yours keep you small? Or will you forge your suffering into something beautiful?

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